Don't be Foolish in Love

Ladies don't get it twisted:

There are still men out there that do not believe in domestic violence or marital rape.
These men look normal. They wear trousers and spray cologne like Normal people. They may go to church with an oversize bible and may even speak in tongues.

If you are not yet married please take time out of your sharwama and karaoke romance to ask your boo the serious life questions. Ask him his views on women; on rape; on having only female kids; on infertility.

Ask him about working mothers; household finances; the role of in-laws in a marriage; his relationship with his past exes and the women in his family.

Not everyday having sex and sharing nude pictures. There's time for that; believe me na you go taya.

Don't be Foolish in Love. Better know the person you are loving or you may be in for a nasty surprise. Many nasty surprises.

This goes for the guys too. Use your upper brain more than your lower brain during courtship.

But this is specifically about domestic violence and marital rape. If your bae/boo does not believe violence - especially sexual violence - in marriage is wrong, I advice you to borrow yourself a brain and some legs and run fast.

Don't say nobody warned you.